good parent is, of course, what every parent would like to be.
当然，每个家长都想变成一个好家长。
（Being a good parent 动名词作主语。What every... to be是表语从句。）
But defining what it means to be a good parent is undoubtedly very tricky, particularly since children respond differently to the same style of parenting.
可是给“好家长“下界说毫无疑问非常难，首要是因为相同的抚育方法对孩子们起到的作用是纷歧样的。
（生词：define使清楚，下界说defining what...good parent动名词作主语。Undoubtedly=doubtless毫无疑问 tricky凌乱的，奇妙的，奸刁的，扎手的since因为因为引导缘由状语从句respond to对……反应，回答，答复）
A calm, rule-following child might respond better to a different sort of parenting than, for example, a younger sibling.
比方，一种不一样的抚育方法对一个恬静听话的成人儿起的作用比他的弟弟小妹要好一些。
（生词：rule-following听话的，规规则矩的sibling兄弟姐妹）
Fortunately , there’s another sort of parent that’s a bit easier to describe: a patient parent.
走运的是，还有一种比照简略描绘的家长：耐性的家长。
Children of every age benefit from patient parenting. Still, while every parent would like to be patient, this is no easy task.
每个年纪段的孩子们都会得益于耐性的抚育。可是，尽管每个家长都想有耐性，可是这不是一件简略的事。
（生词benefit from获益于while引导让步状语从句，意为“尽管”)
Sometimes parents get exhausted and frustrated and are unable to maintain a tolerant and composed style with their kids. I understand this.
有时分父母很累很沮丧，对他们的孩子们不能坚持一种忍耐和镇定的情绪。这我能了解。
（生词：exhausted疲倦的frustrated沮丧的maintain坚持，坚持tolerant忍耐的compose构成，作曲，composed镇定的）
You’re only human, and sometimes your kids can push you just a little too far.And then the inevitable happens: You lose your patience and either scream at your kids or say something that was a bit too harsh and does nobody any good.
你只是个一般人，有时分你的孩子们会把你逼急了，那不可以避免地呈现以下这种情况：你失掉了耐性，要么对着你的孩子们大喊大叫，要么说一些很伤人的话。这样对谁都不好。
（生词push you too far=push you too hard把你逼得太紧inevitable不可以避免的harsh尖利的严肃的)
You wish that you could turn back the clock and start over. We’ve all been there.
你期望你能让韶光倒流，然后从头初步。咱们都有过这样的情况。
However, even though it’s common, it’s important to keep in mind that in a single moment of fatigue, you can say something to your child that you may regret for a long time.
可是，即便这是很广泛的表象，你仍是要记住只是是一片刻间的疲倦你都可以会对你孩子说一些你或许会后悔很长时刻的话。这一点很重要。
（生词：fatigue疲倦 keep in mind that...记住 in a single of moment一片刻间，一片刻)
This may not only do damage to your relationship with your child but also affect your child’s self-esteem.
这不只是损坏了你和孩子之间的联络而且影响了你孩子的自负。
（生词：do damage to损坏，损坏self-esteem自负）
If you consistently lose your cool with your kids, then you are inadvertently modeling a lack of emotional control for your kids.
假定你老是对你的孩子失掉镇定（发脾气），那你无意中就会给你的孩子们树立一个心境失控的榜样。
（consistently共同的，一向如一的inadvertently无意中，不经意之间model... for sb给或人树立一个……的榜样a lack of短少emotional 心境的，动情的，情感上的）
We are all becoming increasingly aware of the importance of modeling tolerance and patience for the younger generation.
咱们都越来越知道到给年青一代人树立一个宽恕耐性的榜样。
（生词：increasingly 日益，分外，越来越be aware of知道到tolerance宽宏许多，宽恕）
This is a skill that will help them all throughout life. In fact, the ability to emotionally regulate or maintain emotional control when confronted by stress is one of the most important of all life’s skills.
这是一个对孩子们终身有利的技能。实际上，当面临压力时，控制心境的才能是人终身中最重要的才能之一。
(生词：regulate调度，控制be confronted by/with遇到，面临）
Certainly, it’s incredibly hard to maintain patience at all times with your children. A more practical goal is to try, to the best of your ability, to be as tolerant and composed as you can when faced with trying situations involving your children.
当然，对你的孩子们老是坚持有耐性是很难的。当面临触及到你的孩子们的令人难以忍耐的情况时，有一个更有用的方针就是极力，尽你最大的尽力，尽可以地去坚持宽恕和镇定。
（生词：incredibly 难以相信地，很at all times老是，一向practical实践的，有用的。trying令人难以忍耐的，令人厌烦的，尴尬的 involve牵涉,包括，触及，与……有关，参加）
I can promise you this: As a result of working toward this goal, you and your children will benefit and emerge from stressful moments feeling better physically and emotionally.
我可以向你承诺：朝着这个方针尽力的成果就是你和你的孩子们都会获益的，也会脱节掉压力，身心会更安康。
（生词：As a result of 因为emerge from从……中出来physically身体上emotionally心境上
1. A tedious B pleasant
C instructive D tricky
2. A in addition B for example
C at once D by accident
3. A FortunatelyB Occasionally
C Accordingly D Eventually
4. A amuse B assist
C describe D train
5. A whileB because
C unless D once
6. A answer B task
C choice D access
7. A tolerantB formal
C rigid D critical
8. A move B drag
C pushD send
9. A mysterious B illogical
C suspicious D inevitable
10. A boring B naive
C
harshD vague
11.A turn back B take apart
C set aside D cover up
12. A Overall B Instead
C However D Otherwise
13. A like B miss
C believe D regret
14. A raise B affect
C justify D reflect
15. A time B bond
C race D cool
16. A nature B secret
C importanceD context
17. A cheated B defeated
C confused D confronted
18. A terrible B hard
C strange D wrong
19. A tryingB changing
C exciting D surprising
20. A hide B emerge
C withdraw D escape
